Monday, February 3, 2014

Accepting our mistakes is not a crime

ACCEPTING OUR MISTAKES IS NOT A CRIME!!!


                                           Not Everyone has the daring guts to accept our mistakes when we are wrong. When I just think about committing mistakes, the one saying which comes to my mind is that 'To Err is Human'. This is a wonderful universally applicable statement and no human is an exception to it. A human who cannot commit a mistake can never be a human.Only God is void of mistakes.

                                           A child is an easy learner who has the ability to grasp things fast. As the child grows, the learning ability fades. What may be the reason for this? A child neither fears to commit a mistake nor does it feel reluctant to correct himself. God has blessed us with this very nature of open mindedness but the environment we live changes this innate nature and instigates a feeling of failure fear in the hearts of everyone.

                                            This fear of failure acts as a defensive mechanism which is the driving force in making us to neglect or to refuse to accept our mistakes though our inner conscience warns about it. Then why do we not heed the advice of our own soul? This is like running away from a failure or a problem rather than facing it. People with lack of confidence or courage are more prone to defend themselves from every mistake they encounter.

                                            Rather than showing our back to the problems, we have to scare the problems off us by facing them with more confidence. This can only develop in ourselves if we accept ourselves, our potential, our strength and our weakness as such and a proactive attitude to come up with the inborn talent with the help of the wide open knowledge by acquiring it as much as possible .

                                            Erasers are invented not for those who make mistakes and only for those who want to correct their mistakes. Likewise, an optimistic eye towards a failure can make everyone successful. Really, mistakes are the secret of success and failures are our stepping stones. If a person encounters more and more failures by committing more and more mistakes, that person polishes himself with the experiences and is all set to welcome success.

                                            So, let us develop a healthy attitude of accepting our own mistakes instead of blaming others or the situation which acts as a positive feedback and re bounces with extra energy towards achieving our own goal. Let us accept our mistakes. Be optimistic to correct them until we attain Success.



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